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Originally Posted by mbchills
You guys can argue all you want that it isn't "ethical" and that its "manipulative", but that's just bullshit. This is the best stuff that females react to. I respect women and i don't treat them like shit. There is nothing wrong with the game. It's just a more advanced form of social dynamics that works a lot better then "just being yourself"
And it worked, the girl messaged me today and wanted to hang out, she's very interested in me now. I told her i was busy and she asked about tomorrow, and the next day.
I completely turned around the whole situation, how many times has that been done when given the "let's just be friends" speach?
that right there says enough that the game works.
and no body is personality deficient, but it IS a game. why? because it's fun, if you don't have fun you'll lose.
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That could very well be true, but hopefully you understand that your verbage lent to the notion that manipulation and disrespect were part of it. If you see it as a game, that's fine for you, but again, you need to understand that many people view this as nothing short of manipulation. You don't see it that way because it works for you. The women you attract with those methods don't see it as a game because they play it, too. To outside observers, it seems trite, childish, and manipulative. You can disagree all you want and you can point to success as proof that it works but that doesn't change how it's seen from the outside.
You use the argument that since she is now responding to you, it validates the "game". It could very well be that you were the one manipulated into chasing her down and she now sees you as easily controlled. I could be wrong, but without honesty, you never know where you truly stand or what is really going on.
If you're enjoying yourself, then in the end, that's all that matters, I guess. Eventually, though, you'll tire of this form of socialization and you'll find that women worth more than youthful gameplaying will not respond to whatever rulebook you're following at the moment.
Either way, it's your life and you have to live it your way.