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Ustwo · 02-21-2006, 01:04 PM

When I first read some of this thread I was of the 'mind games are wrong' blah blah be your self perspective.

Then I realized I'd be a hypocrite doing so.

I 'played the game' when I realized what most women want at the subconcious level. Long story short, they want confidence and strength (inner/outer, but strength). They want the alpha male, someone who seems perhaps even superior too them.

By being the nice guy, you are being the submissive one too, and most women I find want no part in that. They may say they are looking for a sensitive caring guy, but thats their brains talking not their gonads and we all know where logic goes when it comes to sex.

As such instead of letting a girl know I really liked her and was interested I'd act like it didn't matter, I'd be happy if she were there, but just as happy if she wasn't. She wouldn't know if I really wanted her or not, she would have to get MY attention, not the other way around.

Worked wonders, and I suddenly found myself with more dates then I knew what to do with. I figured it out, and we have been together for the last 14 years.

02-21-2006, 01:04 PM	#466 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	When I first read some of this thread I was of the 'mind games are wrong' blah blah be your self perspective. Then I realized I'd be a hypocrite doing so. I 'played the game' when I realized what most women want at the subconcious level. Long story short, they want confidence and strength (inner/outer, but strength). They want the alpha male, someone who seems perhaps even superior too them. By being the nice guy, you are being the submissive one too, and most women I find want no part in that. They may say they are looking for a sensitive caring guy, but thats their brains talking not their gonads and we all know where logic goes when it comes to sex. As such instead of letting a girl know I really liked her and was interested I'd act like it didn't matter, I'd be happy if she were there, but just as happy if she wasn't. She wouldn't know if I really wanted her or not, she would have to get MY attention, not the other way around. Worked wonders, and I suddenly found myself with more dates then I knew what to do with. I figured it out, and we have been together for the last 14 years. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.