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Supple Cow - i want to add and disagree to your thought of equal equality. Generally I think this would not be possible thanks to the general feeling insecurity most have with themselves which complicates every relationship. I find it incredibly difficult to find several people completely and truly confident enough to believe they wont be left. I think that alone can devastate any individual relationship let alone a multiplicitive relationship (i dont know how else to say it, sorry, terminology impairment).
Personally i believe love is unending. However, i think the discrepency lies when love in one relationship is removed and put towards someone else. I know this cant be measured in materialistic terms, however, i think people realize when they have reduced their emotional attachment for one person to provide for another. Does this say i dont think you can love more than one? No, but rather I question how we choose and how we execute our love for others. When we use another as a counterbalance to compensate for something we dont love in the first, thats when the problems occur. Others should not fill the voids and spaces in our primary relationship. I think this is what occurs more often than anything.
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