DTMFA...
(O_o) whaaa???
Anywho... girlie, just tell the dude to step off... if he's got emotional issues, chances are they're manisfesting themselves in other aspects of the relationship, and you can see them. However, you say you're totally happy together except for this one little thing...
Look on this as a chance to improve your communication. Work on listening to each other and working to become better people for each other- don't do dumb shit like "witholding sex until he behaves." He's not a dog, or a child, he's the man you love. Respect him enough to give him a chance to respect you. (Not saying you'd do dumb stuff, just channeling my inner
The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, which BTW is a good book).)
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