A plan that involves "devaluing her" is suspect at best.
This one is much better: "i'm thinking of just sitting down with her and saying 'maybe i read you wrong but i got the vibe that you liked me and wanted to pursue something and so i acted on it. you're really hard to read, why don't you tell me what it is you actually want with me.'"
P.S. I bet she think of it as a prick shield
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