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Originally Posted by shesus
"I already have enough friends...but I could put you on the waiting list."
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hahaha, that's amazing. i'm using that if this ever happens again (hopefully it won't haha)
ok basically a bitch shield is something that girls have up because guys constantly hit on them, so they act like a bitch purposely to weed out the pussies. Now, usually a guy who is confident and awesome can get past the bitch shield by firing back at the girl, devaluing her, and thus letting him get to know the "real" her. My problem, is that on occasion this girls bitch shield comes back, and it got annoying.
Also, i'm not interested in just sex. If i was, i would've dropped her since vaginas are everywhere, I was actually intrigued by her.
The situation is getting weirder by the minute. She likes another guy, she was confused with who to like more when hanging out with me, and i made the choice easier by fucking things up recently. (maybe the reason for the bitch shield, to see if i'm worth it)
I spoke with her best friend today, who i'm also friends with. she told me that yesterday, at this comedy show, she was with her and that guy, and when I walked by the girl was freaking out that I would see her with the guy. and last night when i told her i don't want to be her friend she was really pissed that i didn't want anything to do with her
i'm thinking of just sitting down with her and saying "maybe i read you wrong but i got the vibe that you liked me and wanted to pursue something and so i acted on it. you're really hard to read, why don't you tell me what it is you actually want with me"
ill make it pretty clear i don't want to be just friends, if she objects then its over. I don't know what other choice i have.