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Originally Posted by World's King
I have to disagree.
75% of the time I don't get it until it's too late.
When my girl and I play around like this and she tells me to stop I do exactly what OshnSoul's boyfriend does. And it's not until later that I realize that I might have taken it too far. Guys are like that. If we're playing we wanna keep playin' and don't pay attention to much else.
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I'm siding here too. It's not any kind of malicious act, nor is it a matter of purposely ignoring the issue. It's not even a matter of not occasionally looking at my actions and trying to root out the annoying ones... 55-70% of the time it's just a matter of missing the issue altogether because I've got a thick skull and subtle taps aren't going to get through. "What's the matter? What'd I do?" comes out of my mouth a lot, and it isn't until just after that action that I tend to realize the answer. I personally need some kind of action, probably a little overly dramatic, to bring many my faults to my attention because, as my actions, they simply don't register on the "Stop-o-meter."
I'll agree again: a kick to the nuts will not only stop the action, it'll give you his undivided attention during which you can fully express your feelings on the matter. It'll also allow you to relieve yourself a little tension.