Originally Posted by maleficent

I'm not big into the 'last goodbyes' and tell the person what they meant to you... I wouldn't want that done to me (i'm of the mindset, if you didn't tell me when I was in good health, the only reason why you're telling me now is for you.. not for me) ... I would, however, want someone to stop by and take a walk downmemory lane... and share old times... and laugh...

you're good at getting people to laugh, elph...

your friend will know what they meant to you....

I'd call the caregiver, and ask when a good time to come over for a visit-- maybe bring lunch... or an afternoon snack.. the caregiver might even appreciate the break...