^^^ completely agree. some might find casual flirting as cheating. Some might dismiss that and just say that having sex with someone else is cheating. I find that if an SO got attached either emotionally or physically with someone else, it is a level of cheating. A part of them, whether big or small, has detached from the relationship. But then of course- you would want to ask yourself what you may be doing to cause this. There is a lack thereof or too much of something that you are giving them.
It has been so difficult for my SO and I to have the time to just sit and talk. But there are a couple free evenings the beginning of next week in which we can discuss things, but we know it's something that needs to be talked out at once- not in little heated chunks.......
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