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I had to go with undecided.
Mainly because it's a catch 22.
If you tell the child you may bring out memories and issues that would not have ever come up.
But if you don't tell, and they find out or issues come up then they resent you for not telling them.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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