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There's a question that's remained unasked, so I feel bound to ask it now.
Why do you want to change?
The thing is, some people are introverted by nature and there's nothing wrong with that. In extreme cases, it can impede living your life (social anxiety), in which case change is clearly desirable. Other than that.. well, it's okay to want to change and I'm not meaning to imply otherwise. But the question to ask is whether you think changing is going to make you a happier person. Are you doing this for yourself, or because it's what's expected of you?
Never change who you are for someone else. It's not worth it.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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