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Originally Posted by Sunstar
I don't think we're right for each other. Mainly it comes down to trust. He cheated on me emotionally twice.
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You've already got your answer, you're just looking for mental reassurance that it's the right decision.
From what you've put down it really seems to me that you don't trust him at all, and he doesn't trust you at all. This is a weak relationship. In addition to that (maybe because of it) he is "emotionally cheating" on you- getting into other relationships instead of strengthing your existing one.
I think you need to do one of two things:
1. Shake up the relationship. Have a good long talk about honesty, communication, and trust; find out what the relationship means to you, what it means to him, and if you want to continue it. As a result of this talk either start fresh or break up mutually.
2. Make the decision yourself, and break up with him. He has already lied to you and broken your trust deeply TWICE. Is this the sort of person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Can you truly forgive him this or will you resent it further on in the relationship?