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Originally Posted by Ishmal
i've had that problem b4...
i'll get an initial erection, then it'll go down a bit by the time i want to use it (i really like teasing her & playing with her body)
i've found that if i focus on the problem (i.e. think "get harder, get harder") it actually gets worse because i am no longer thinking about the sensations...
so we learnt to gently rub the tip of my penis on her clit (mutual good feeling) and i don't think about it specifically.
that way, he gets hard again & we go to town.
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Wow yeah, that really does sound like my situation, and yeah, like Guccilvr posted, I may be focusing a little too much making sure she's enjoying herself. She just recently told me she's feeling really selfish since I wasn't able to get off the last time we attempted intercourse.
And Val_1... I don't know. I hope it is temporary. My last girlfriend sort of messed with my head a little bit and I suppose I am still recovering a little (it's been about six months though, so I'm not sure). The newness does get to me I suppose.
Thanks for all the replies everyone.
