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One thing that made our sex life better was when we stopped looking at climaxing as a goal. Just because she (or I) don't get off or do quickly, doesn't mean that it was not enjoyable. Matter of fact, since we started consciously doing this, sex has gotten 100% better. It also took some pressure off of me, and I've been able to last much longer.
Also, try a little variation when you are going down on her. My wife likes it a lot when i'm laying on my back and she is straddling my face. Gives her more control over excatly where and how hard she wants it. ANY variation in sexual routine is good- time, place, ....
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