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4thTimeLucky · 05-24-2003, 09:35 AM

Sorry to hear your predicament Washington, though I must admit I am pretty envious of the lifestyle you lead and the body you say you have, even if it is a lonely one!

I can only really echo the advice of earlier posters. The two key things to have a nice social life and girlfriend are:

i) A liking of yourself for what you are good at, from which grows a confidence in yourself.
ii) Meeting people, of either gender, through activities. It can sports, cookery, ballroom dancing, bell ringing or anything really.

So long as you are a nice guy then once you meet a group of people, you will then get the chance to meet their friends and then their friends and so on. Before you know it you have found some who you get on (really) well with and will have started meeting girls in an unthreatening environment. Offer to teach them to ski and they will be yours my friend!

Good luck

05-24-2003, 09:35 AM	#17 (permalink)
4thTimeLucky Psycho Location: 4th has left the building - goodbye folks	Sorry to hear your predicament Washington, though I must admit I am pretty envious of the lifestyle you lead and the body you say you have, even if it is a lonely one! I can only really echo the advice of earlier posters. The two key things to have a nice social life and girlfriend are: i) A liking of yourself for what you are good at, from which grows a confidence in yourself. ii) Meeting people, of either gender, through activities. It can sports, cookery, ballroom dancing, bell ringing or anything really. So long as you are a nice guy then once you meet a group of people, you will then get the chance to meet their friends and then their friends and so on. Before you know it you have found some who you get on (really) well with and will have started meeting girls in an unthreatening environment. Offer to teach them to ski and they will be yours my friend! Good luck __________________ I've been 4thTimeLucky, you've been great. Goodnight and God bless!