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Originally Posted by Impetuous1
The problem with that is when that happens, I think "Oh, so he just wanted to get into my pants after all and had absolutely no interest in anything I said." Oh well. Catch 22 I guess. I see where you are coming from. However, I usually have a pretty good idea when someone is interested in me and I usually preempt the whole situation by avoiding them. I also do the same when I find someone attractive and am in a relationship. I'd rather not be tempted.
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I see. That's interesting, it makes sense kind of. I don't think ANY girl likes to be friends with a 'boring'-esque guy right? That's kind of why I have changed to be a little more flirty, joke around, you know, treat her like one of the guys (bust and tease her more).
So then the question is, can a guy and girl who both find each other attractive but are not interested in each other (yet) truly be 'just friends'?
Or does one or the other inevitably like the other in a way that their friendship is at risk?
Who's to judge if one or the other began the friendship simply out of a subconcious intention to 'get in the other's pants'?
I guess this question and problem has been around forever, haha.