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Originally Posted by Sage
oh, and the booze thing is not recommended- you need to be in full control of your senses when you have anal sex because you can really seriously do some damage if you thrust too hard- and that can be hard to realize when you're drunk!
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The idea isn't to get totally wasted. The idea is to have a glass of wine or two--enough to relax without effort. You're still in control of your senses, but the relaxation response is easier to achieve. Obviously, he wants to be sober or close to it.
Just take it easy--that's the biggest piece of advice to adhere to. Go slow and let her tell you what she is comfortable with.