I have to agree with the "safety" idea. I tend to be a bit flirty anyway, but I feel MUCH more comfortable with those who are already taken, because it is harmless, or those who are friends/know my husband, because they know I'M taken and so it's usually harmless as well.
And Daoust, I gotcha - men may be slower to realize that women are just feeling safe with them, and think it's a "she wants me cause she can't have me" thing - so their egos are boosted. To be honest, unless a single guy is friendly with Quadro, I am suspicious if they are too flirty with me in the beginning...
Fresnelly - here's a friendly, non-wife-threatening smooch on the cheek from me! :*
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