Welcome, welcome to all of our new people!
Lots of us go through rough times on this forum, but this is a community that can handle it, as well as give you plenty of food for thought.
Babes - there are "stickys" at the top of each forum that outline the basic ideas and rules of each section (i.e. no men posting in Ladies' Lounge, no trolling, no being mean to exhibition posts, etc.).
2hot - maybe check out the journals section, it's a good place to vent.