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Originally Posted by Impetuous1
You're screwed. I think she probably knows how you feel about her but didn't want to address it because she likes all the free services she's getting. BTW, I'm a woman and if I had a guy waiting on me hand and foot like that I think I'd probably lose respect for them because it would seem as if they had no life of their own. You are her lap dog. Stop waiting on her. See if she comes to you and reciprocates a little. Then, and only then, do you ask her out. You first need to see if she respects you since you basically have laid yourself at her feet. It also sounds like your obsessed with her. Are you sure the comment about her being your girlfriend was interest and not just digging the claws into you? An acknowledgement that she knows why you are hanging on her all the time and is taunting you about your inaction? Plus, if she really wanted you, I would think that she'd have said something by now. You say that you became her friend b/c you really wanted to be friends but in your original post you said, "The second I met her I felt feelings towards her." Admit it, you became her friend to get into her pants and the plan backfired.
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I came in here to say this, so I'll just leave you with it quoted. I'd like to stress that the problem isn't that you are being "nice", it is that you are giving and giving and giving without recipication.
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