Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post

maleficent · 01-31-2006, 07:50 AM

The word need makes me nervous... I'm not sure I want to be needed by anyone... Needing, to me, signifies a weakness, that you are missing something that the needing fulfills... I would prefer to be wanted and would want someone in my life who wants to be with me rather than needs to be with me...

Women don't need protection... Most of us are pretty good at taking care ourselves... However, there are some who just want to have the strong male who could take care fo them if the situation arose.

Why does independence bother you? And i realize you like what you like and it's hard to change... independent women are with you because they want to - -that's a deeper affection and a stronger sense of loyalty than that woman who is with you because she needs you (and can't make it on her own...)

01-31-2006, 07:50 AM	#4 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	The word need makes me nervous... I'm not sure I want to be needed by anyone... Needing, to me, signifies a weakness, that you are missing something that the needing fulfills... I would prefer to be wanted and would want someone in my life who wants to be with me rather than needs to be with me... Women don't need protection... Most of us are pretty good at taking care ourselves... However, there are some who just want to have the strong male who could take care fo them if the situation arose. Why does independence bother you? And i realize you like what you like and it's hard to change... independent women are with you because they want to - -that's a deeper affection and a stronger sense of loyalty than that woman who is with you because she needs you (and can't make it on her own...) __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.