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Originally Posted by Zeraph
Yet clearly they learned from that mistake, thereby not making such an endeavor in vain.
If someone looks back and realizes they did something too early, like maybe getting their own place to live at 17 or 18, they usually don't regret such things even though it was a "mistake" at the time, because they learned from it and can move on to learning more advanced things all the faster.
Again, we "accept" mistakes in other facets of life, why not with sex?
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You can't put sex on the same plane as choosing a bad place to live or a bad car! And if you do, I feel sorry for you...(nothing personal, but experiencing the affection that comes with sharing, well, if you haven't had that....)
While having sex is certainly fun, it can and should be the most personal sign of affection you can give someone. Apparently we are not talking about that, this discussion must be about fucking, which is also quite enjoyable but even more so shouldn't be done by kids who can't say or name the parts they're using without giggling and don't know a thing about personal pleasure and giving. You can't take back sex, can't trade it for something better..once you give yourself to another, that's it. And the wrong experience can have reprecussions that may never go away. Ask anyone who WASN'T ready.