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Originally Posted by ngdawg
If my daughter lost her virginity at her current age, I'd be devastated. She knows the implications, is a relatively very bright girl. Thirteen is a child and 15 not much more than one. I'm extremely liberal about just about everything, but children having sex, no. You're one of very few, for whatever reason. Girls that I worked with who engaged in sexual activity(13-14) did it for a number of reasons, none the right ones. And not one admitted to enjoying the experience-it was to 'keep the boyfriend' or get one.
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Yet clearly they learned from that mistake, thereby not making such an endeavor in vain.
If someone looks back and realizes they did something too early, like maybe getting their own place to live at 17 or 18, they usually don't regret such things even though it was a "mistake" at the time, because they learned from it and can move on to learning more advanced things all the faster.
Again, we "accept" mistakes in other facets of life, why not with sex?