I think I am going to jump back into the grey areas here, because the whole "13 year-old" and "30 year-old" is almost black and white...
At the age of 13, I think it is clear that boys and girls (I use that term on purpose) are not ready. I was wearing my ass for a hat when I was 13. I also found out the wonder of masturbation, which I would state as being the start of my sexuality.
At the age of 14, I was going crazy thinking about girls, and sex in general. I was actively looking for pictures of naked women, and this was the age before the internet. I was bloody fucking insane, and if a mature woman offered herself to me, I would have fucked her twice before her voice echoed off the closest wall.
At the age of 15, I saw my friends start to "hook-up" with girls; some pretty, some ugly, all of them kind of exploring the subject of sex. No actual intercourse, but to use the baseball analogy, there were some good runs at third-base. I, unfortunately, could not get a girlfriend. I tried, but I was uncoordinated, shy, silly, and not very good-looking (in a 15 year-old standard of beauty). If a mature woman would have offered, I would have run away from embarrasment.
At 16, I was ready. I knew what to do, I knew how, but there was just no Who or When.
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