I know what you mean, sportswidow. I have a pair of boots that have this great look and a chunky heel...they just make me feel great. They're also comfy enough for everyday wear
Similarly, I have a pair of loafers from Kenneth Cole that look classy and make me feel classy when I wear them. But since loud shoes are a bad idea when one is doing bedchecks, I usually skip fancy shoes at work and settle for my Nikes
As for "that dress" I have a black cocktail dress I love to wear. I only wish I had more opportunity to wear it