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Drider_it · 01-25-2006, 05:11 AM

starting oct 31 my wife and I had a falling out. She ended up working midnights and I days. we just seemed to never see each other anymore.. tempers flared and such

in the end we temp seperated for a bit. in all this a dude enters the picture. after a ton of drama i find this email..

as for snooping.. yeah i did. i was told i could look in her emails and her in mine... but then i find this

From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com>
To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
CC: <drich1@centurytel.net>
Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message...
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 14:36:56 -0600

Hi Heidi: OK - remember- prayer is very powerful and can help you.

Dana
----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
To: <drichard1@hotmail.com>
Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 2:27 PM
Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message...

cuz opi once told me he was a good listener..... that is in the past

timing i meant only this...... if i was further along it would be matts. you know like three mos three and a half months i was just explaining myself about opi's comment.....

he is now sending me these comments thanks for telling dad..... and where did i think it was my place to tell you.... i wasnt causing more drama i needed some one to talk to... im sorry for the more drama.... i see things have only gotten worse.....

From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com>
To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
CC: <drich1@centurytel.net>
Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message...
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 14:09:21 -0600

Hi Heidi: Venting is not a problem - glad to let you vent all you want.
Suggestions aren't what you get a pastor to give you - we're really
only good at hearing and praying and then researching sometimes what
the best god fearing course might be. Nothing you are facing is new-
with the possible exception of your current life situation, which makes
it a bit of bummer.
Gary might tell me, might not, who knows with Gary - who knows with
anyone nowdays.
Opi? Why in the world would you go vent to him?
Anyway - not sure about what you mean about the timing being the
proof of Gary being a papa...nowdays that's hardly something we
dispute...ya know...DNA and what not...Anyway...don't get crazy..
do your best to conduct yourself in as responsible a fashion as possible
and remember to pray and to let Jesus guide you.

Dana
----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
To: <drichard1@hotmail.com>
Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:50 PM
Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message...

im letting you read this in confidence that it is just you....

With Gary being gone so much we dont talk as much or see one another.. TO me that is understandable.. it really is..... I did however tell him that on his days off and when its not the days he has wyatt and sidny that i really think that we should spend some tme together.... that was my only ask about it...

Gary even asked my parents that when my divorce is done with matthew if he could marry me.. OK here it goes......something you needed to hear from Garmister... Im pregnant... ( iknow that dang near everyone in the world knows kimberly and i think debbie* only way it could be anyone elses (matthews) is if im three months or more along.. and im not im seven weeks... gary was delighted over it... As of this am he is talking about moving to the terminal out of misouri and comming in everyother weekend.. said he is tired of the drama... im still trying to figure out the drama except for my pregnancy and he is going every wich direction.... he hasnt eaten in about a week and he never sleeps right.... i cant get him to eat... im really worried....

when i started to talk to opi but when i taked to gary after that the old man had told gary that i said i wasnt sure whom the baby belonged to ..... i was so upset i could have spit nails .... the words never come out of my mouth.. And that I say in the most truthfulness i ahve ever spoke in my life.

i dont think that he is being very rational and i dont think that his eating habbits are helping....
and if at all possible... let gary come to you about my pregnancy.... i just honestly need to vent and i need advice......
Thank you for your time..
Heidi

From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com>
To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
CC: <drich1@centurytel.net>
Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message...
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 13:35:45 -0600

Hi Heidi: Feel free to say whatever you would like via e-mail -
if you'd like to schedule a consult that is a different matter - bear
in mind that I am a pastor- so that is something we would have to
consider from a time perspective. My suggestion is that if this is
something that you really need to get off your chest and it's on a
short tether time wise...you will have more ready success using
the e-mail than trying to schedule a consult. Nearly every hour
of every day that I have is full of stuff to do...

OK - having said that - prayer is also good...Jesus listens better than
any human ever has...and Jesus can do stuff a human cannot.

Dana
----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com>
To: <drichard1@hotmail.com>
Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:25 PM

Wow..... Gary is in a really bad mood... It's funny I dont know you that well and it seems to me that when ever something goes wrong that really really upsets me I feel the need to talk to you... I remember a time that ieven asked Gary to ask you what i should do.. Just wanted you to know the impact you have on people.. that is why i was shocked when you told me that you have no patients with kids as far as it being a constant...

can i meet and talk to you..... so much i need to talk to someone about...i started to talk to opi once but i never finished and what i did talk to him about he twisted or heard wrong.... so much drama im tired of it...

Thank you for your time,
Heidi***************

now she says this is all fake but... man i just dont know anymore..

i want to believe her and all but ... can anyone verify if this centrytel email is legit or a fake one? if it is true this gary dudes dad as a pastor is going against his agrement with god to help us seperate.. and his degrees as a councler to make it happen i guess.. I couldnt see a pastor doing this so like i said.. i just dont know.

01-25-2006, 05:11 AM	#1 (permalink)
Drider_it Junkie Location: Louisiana	Truth or fiction starting oct 31 my wife and I had a falling out. She ended up working midnights and I days. we just seemed to never see each other anymore.. tempers flared and such in the end we temp seperated for a bit. in all this a dude enters the picture. after a ton of drama i find this email.. as for snooping.. yeah i did. i was told i could look in her emails and her in mine... but then i find this From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com> To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> CC: <drich1@centurytel.net> Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message... Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 14:36:56 -0600 Hi Heidi: OK - remember- prayer is very powerful and can help you. Dana ----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> To: <drichard1@hotmail.com> Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 2:27 PM Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message... cuz opi once told me he was a good listener..... that is in the past timing i meant only this...... if i was further along it would be matts. you know like three mos three and a half months i was just explaining myself about opi's comment..... he is now sending me these comments thanks for telling dad..... and where did i think it was my place to tell you.... i wasnt causing more drama i needed some one to talk to... im sorry for the more drama.... i see things have only gotten worse..... From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com> To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> CC: <drich1@centurytel.net> Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message... Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 14:09:21 -0600 Hi Heidi: Venting is not a problem - glad to let you vent all you want. Suggestions aren't what you get a pastor to give you - we're really only good at hearing and praying and then researching sometimes what the best god fearing course might be. Nothing you are facing is new- with the possible exception of your current life situation, which makes it a bit of bummer. Gary might tell me, might not, who knows with Gary - who knows with anyone nowdays. Opi? Why in the world would you go vent to him? Anyway - not sure about what you mean about the timing being the proof of Gary being a papa...nowdays that's hardly something we dispute...ya know...DNA and what not...Anyway...don't get crazy.. do your best to conduct yourself in as responsible a fashion as possible and remember to pray and to let Jesus guide you. Dana ----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> To: <drichard1@hotmail.com> Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:50 PM Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message... im letting you read this in confidence that it is just you.... With Gary being gone so much we dont talk as much or see one another.. TO me that is understandable.. it really is..... I did however tell him that on his days off and when its not the days he has wyatt and sidny that i really think that we should spend some tme together.... that was my only ask about it... Gary even asked my parents that when my divorce is done with matthew if he could marry me.. OK here it goes......something you needed to hear from Garmister... Im pregnant... ( iknow that dang near everyone in the world knows kimberly and i think debbie* only way it could be anyone elses (matthews) is if im three months or more along.. and im not im seven weeks... gary was delighted over it... As of this am he is talking about moving to the terminal out of misouri and comming in everyother weekend.. said he is tired of the drama... im still trying to figure out the drama except for my pregnancy and he is going every wich direction.... he hasnt eaten in about a week and he never sleeps right.... i cant get him to eat... im really worried.... when i started to talk to opi but when i taked to gary after that the old man had told gary that i said i wasnt sure whom the baby belonged to ..... i was so upset i could have spit nails .... the words never come out of my mouth.. And that I say in the most truthfulness i ahve ever spoke in my life. i dont think that he is being very rational and i dont think that his eating habbits are helping.... and if at all possible... let gary come to you about my pregnancy.... i just honestly need to vent and i need advice...... Thank you for your time.. Heidi From: "Prof. Dana Richardson, BS/BA, CTM, MS/CIS, Ab.D." <drichard1@hotmail.com> To: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> CC: <drich1@centurytel.net> Subject: Re: No subject- From Dana - Your message... Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2006 13:35:45 -0600 Hi Heidi: Feel free to say whatever you would like via e-mail - if you'd like to schedule a consult that is a different matter - bear in mind that I am a pastor- so that is something we would have to consider from a time perspective. My suggestion is that if this is something that you really need to get off your chest and it's on a short tether time wise...you will have more ready success using the e-mail than trying to schedule a consult. Nearly every hour of every day that I have is full of stuff to do... OK - having said that - prayer is also good...Jesus listens better than any human ever has...and Jesus can do stuff a human cannot. Dana ----- Original Message ----- From: "The Oliviers" <proove_it@hotmail.com> To: <drichard1@hotmail.com> Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:25 PM Wow..... Gary is in a really bad mood... It's funny I dont know you that well and it seems to me that when ever something goes wrong that really really upsets me I feel the need to talk to you... I remember a time that ieven asked Gary to ask you what i should do.. Just wanted you to know the impact you have on people.. that is why i was shocked when you told me that you have no patients with kids as far as it being a constant... can i meet and talk to you..... so much i need to talk to someone about...i started to talk to opi once but i never finished and what i did talk to him about he twisted or heard wrong.... so much drama im tired of it... Thank you for your time, Heidi*************** now she says this is all fake but... man i just dont know anymore.. i want to believe her and all but ... can anyone verify if this centrytel email is legit or a fake one? if it is true this gary dudes dad as a pastor is going against his agrement with god to help us seperate.. and his degrees as a councler to make it happen i guess.. I couldnt see a pastor doing this so like i said.. i just dont know. __________________ It means only one thing, and everything: Cut. Once committed to fight, Cut. Everything else is secondary. Cut. That is your duty, your purpose, your hunger. There is no rule more important, no commitment that overrides that one. Cut. The lines are a portrayal of the dance. Cut from the void, not from bewilderment. Cut the enemy as quickly and directly as possible. Cut with certainty. Cut decisively, resoultely. Cut into his strength. Flow through the gaps in his guard. Cut him. Cut him down utterly. Don't allow him a breath. Crush him. Cut him without mercy to the depth of his spirit. It is the balance to life: death. It is the dance with death. It is the law a war wizard lives by, or he dies.