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Originally Posted by Valentina
Well, I would never call myself a "former drug addict." To me, the term "addict" implies that you cannot stop when you decide that the drug is detrimental to your well-being. I'd say I experimented with cocaine and then quit. But perhaps your definition of drug addict is different. Or maybe you just wouldn't want to date a woman who had any history of drug use. Certainly your prerogative...but what if you liked a woman first and then later found out that she had indulged in some illegal substance during her youth?
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I'd pretty much agree with that. I don't think a stripper (or anyone, in general) should be shunned for past behavior unless they've proven that they can't be given anymore chances. My impression from the cocaine addicts I know is that it's going to be a lifetime addiction for them, which I want no part of. If the person can stop doing drugs on a permanent basis, then I'm all for it - it's a great way to see their strength, which is attractive to me at least. If I got the impression that they weren't recovered completely, they would be thrown out of my life so fast there would be a sonic boom.
But yeah, to bring this fully to the topic, people should be able and ready to change any opinions they might have about strippers, just like any other stereotypes.
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Originally Posted by HoneyPot
I also have been thinking seriously about giving my lover a lap dance.... I mean maybe for Valentine's Day? Then the question is how exactly do you do it? I mean I know I can shake it and move it.... then what.... ????
I thought about a blind fold first, then maybe moving forward to the lap.... I dont know.
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Believe it or not, the internet is full of good examples of lap dances. 
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