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Originally Posted by Mantus
- You make goals sound like a bad thing. The jurney is part of the adventure, without it our destinations would be meaningless.
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I agree with this entirely.
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If one achieves everything one wanted to perfection. One would be so very bored.
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This part, not at all. For example, one of my goals is not to screw up the good stuff in my life and lose that while I'm trying to fix the bad stuff. Don't lose my job or alienate my family, and learn to be happy with what I have.
If I could achieve those goals, being bored wouldn't be a concern.
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Guilda, it sounds clinical but I am no doc. Does your therapist recomend drugs?
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I'm not currently in therapy. I lost my therapist when I moved, and haven't gone back. I've decided to do so again, but I'm not sure how to proceed from here.
maleficent: Thank you. I'll try to keep that in mind.
shesus: Maybe I shouldn't feel defeated, but I do. Just like I don't feel content with my life, even though I should.
And thank you everyone for the advice and for sharing. At least it's helped me to make a hard decision. Now comes the really hard part, acting on that.
Gilda