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Originally Posted by Supple Cow
snip...At first, I was a little surprised to find that membership is pretty much exclusively for single women and couples - no single men. There was only one club in the city that recently started letting single men, and only one night a week. That aspect - I chose one of the other clubs - made it feel a lot safer for me when I decided to sign up. I wonder... is it like that most places?...snip
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Yup this is frequently how it is. I've been to clubs that allow single men and often the ratio of male to female ends up being 3 to 1 or greater. In that kind of atmosphere the men (often the single men) seem to have the idea that the woman are there just to have sex with as many men as they can. Some can get pushy or even cut in almost on another guy. This is the rarity of course but it happens more frequently with clubs that allow single guys or at least don't restrict the number of single guys at each party.
No matter what you should make sure you go to a club where the number one rule is "No means no." Most are this way but some can be more lax than others.
Good luck. I hope you'll enjoy this sexual adventure. I sure did/do.
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