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chriswin8 · 01-23-2006, 11:10 AM

Me
Well lets see. Things are going ok i quess. I am still getting the moron moments as i have coined them. But they are getting fewer. Yes i am getting very smitten with the Nanny (Ashley). And i am trying to hide it becasue i am just afraid she will leave if i do. The reasons i dont say anything are:
1) We can't afford to lose her, the girls love the hell out of her.
2) I injoy spending time with her.
3) Boy can she cook.
So on the nanny front i am not sure what to do.

As for the girls and I. I look forward to bed time I like reading them stories and bath time (I tend to be as wet as them). So i start spalshing wars so that i never win, so what. Ashley just shakes her head and smiles. She said to me friday that there are times she is not sure that she is helping me with the 2 of them or taking care of the 3 of us. I said there are times that you are doing both. Then she said well then i guess its your bed time to. I said yes nanna and went to bed. It was 9pm, I was making a funny point. The next morning when i got up she was like what happend to you. I said I went to bed. She just laughed. Now we have this little game the two of us are playing, along those lines.

Hayley (4 year old)
I picked her up to put her in her booster seat the other day and i managed to smack her head on the roof of the truck. She didn't cry she just gave me this look. So I said i was sorry and walked around the other side of the truck and made a point to hit my head getting in the truck as well. I didnt make anything of it but as i am starting the care i hear this giggling comming from behind me. And i just smiled. She is really starting to miss her mother i think. I almost cried the other day she asked me "Does mommy not love us anymore?, Is that why we dont see her." I tried to expline that mommy was sick and trying to get well again so she could see them. But i am not sure i got my point accross. I kept fumbleing over my words. I need some advice what would you say (Please be detailed)

Megan (2 year old)
Is starting to act like the dog (Willy). She wants to eat dinner off her plate on the floor. We let her lastnight it was amusing and i got it on Tape. LOL
She tries very hard to "Help" Walk the dog. But in the end its funny to watch the dog pull her around. And she is becoming a bit of an exabisonest (forgive misspelling) She doesnt want to keep her shirt on for some reason every time i turn around its on the floor, its getting annoying.

Tricha (there Mother)
She will be released from the hospital on friday (27th). I am not sure how i fell about this. I guess if i had to put a name to it i would call it conserned. I have taped all the CPS visitation rules to the wall in my house as you walk in the front door its the first thing you see. I am now very much afraid of losing the kids. CPS is telling me that Trisha's first visitation is on the 1st. But i have the girls on a scedual now. And that is going to interfear with it. So i have request they be moved from Wensdays to Saterdays, i am just waiting to hear from them. I have a log book i am going to keep for the visitations. For the first few visits CPS wants to be there. The end of next month they are having a eval heiring to see if she is eligable to get the kids back. in my opinnion its too soon. She is just getting out of the hospital. I am afraid for these kids.

Well that is all for now. I have to get back to work.

01-23-2006, 11:10 AM	#58 (permalink)
chriswin8 Tilted Location: Buffalo NY	Me Well lets see. Things are going ok i quess. I am still getting the moron moments as i have coined them. But they are getting fewer. Yes i am getting very smitten with the Nanny (Ashley). And i am trying to hide it becasue i am just afraid she will leave if i do. The reasons i dont say anything are: 1) We can't afford to lose her, the girls love the hell out of her. 2) I injoy spending time with her. 3) Boy can she cook. So on the nanny front i am not sure what to do. As for the girls and I. I look forward to bed time I like reading them stories and bath time (I tend to be as wet as them). So i start spalshing wars so that i never win, so what. Ashley just shakes her head and smiles. She said to me friday that there are times she is not sure that she is helping me with the 2 of them or taking care of the 3 of us. I said there are times that you are doing both. Then she said well then i guess its your bed time to. I said yes nanna and went to bed. It was 9pm, I was making a funny point. The next morning when i got up she was like what happend to you. I said I went to bed. She just laughed. Now we have this little game the two of us are playing, along those lines. Hayley (4 year old) I picked her up to put her in her booster seat the other day and i managed to smack her head on the roof of the truck. She didn't cry she just gave me this look. So I said i was sorry and walked around the other side of the truck and made a point to hit my head getting in the truck as well. I didnt make anything of it but as i am starting the care i hear this giggling comming from behind me. And i just smiled. She is really starting to miss her mother i think. I almost cried the other day she asked me "Does mommy not love us anymore?, Is that why we dont see her." I tried to expline that mommy was sick and trying to get well again so she could see them. But i am not sure i got my point accross. I kept fumbleing over my words. I need some advice what would you say (Please be detailed) Megan (2 year old) Is starting to act like the dog (Willy). She wants to eat dinner off her plate on the floor. We let her lastnight it was amusing and i got it on Tape. LOL She tries very hard to "Help" Walk the dog. But in the end its funny to watch the dog pull her around. And she is becoming a bit of an exabisonest (forgive misspelling) She doesnt want to keep her shirt on for some reason every time i turn around its on the floor, its getting annoying. Tricha (there Mother) She will be released from the hospital on friday (27th). I am not sure how i fell about this. I guess if i had to put a name to it i would call it conserned. I have taped all the CPS visitation rules to the wall in my house as you walk in the front door its the first thing you see. I am now very much afraid of losing the kids. CPS is telling me that Trisha's first visitation is on the 1st. But i have the girls on a scedual now. And that is going to interfear with it. So i have request they be moved from Wensdays to Saterdays, i am just waiting to hear from them. I have a log book i am going to keep for the visitations. For the first few visits CPS wants to be there. The end of next month they are having a eval heiring to see if she is eligable to get the kids back. in my opinnion its too soon. She is just getting out of the hospital. I am afraid for these kids. Well that is all for now. I have to get back to work. __________________ I reject your reality, and substitute my own.