Heres a very important thing to remember. You can't take care of anyone else unless you can take care of yourself first. Now, if your girlfriend is mature and serious, she will understand if you have to take an out of state job. I'm currently doing it and my wife hates it but she understands. So, you do what you have to do. If the job is out of state but pays well, take it until something opens back up in your hometown...otherwise you're just setting yourself up for hard times.
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"no amount of force can control a free man, a man whose mind is free. No, not the rack, not fission bombs, not anything. You cannot conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him."
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