I used to hide the porn because I was certain shesus would get jealous that I liked looking at other people having sex.
Then one day I came home and she asked if I ever looked at porn. I said, "yeah, sometimes." She told me that she found some porn on the computer. She then said, "At first I was mad. But then I got off."
Ever since then, we've looked for porn together. The openness about our sexuality has made our sex life incredible.
Not to one-up willravel or anything, but we've been together 7 years, married 5 and we still have lots of the sex. In fact, if we go more than 2 or 3 days, we get irritable. We've become a lot more experimental with our sex lives and have entertained ideas that we would never have even considered bringing up to each other 5 years ago.
Her finding the porn was the catalyst that brought more open communication to our marriage, making it even better than ever.
It might be worth the risk of letting her know you are a freakazoid.
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