I also share porn with my girlfriend (serious, long-term relationship), and we have a great time with it, but I realize fully that many people may hold very different feelings toward pornography, so your position isn't a simple one. I must say that I'm a little shocked that porn has remained secret well into marriage, my girlfriend and I broke that seal during the infancy of our relationship. But don't think that I'm passing judgment, I don't intend that in the least.
But it is definitely something that needs to be talked about, in one form or another, because it is my belief that nobody can hide anything forever, and it's always better to bring it up yourself than to be caught in the act. ALWAYS.
You're just gonna have to buckle down and bust it out, my friend.
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