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		 Hash_Browns -- my mother took care of the childcare issue in an interesting way (and one I think I'll use.)  If she needed a sitter for the baby, we were expected to do it, UNLESS we had an offer for another job or evening out.  Then we were asked to do it and paid.  I never felt resentful. 
		
		
		
		
		
			
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