Hash_Browns -- my mother took care of the childcare issue in an interesting way (and one I think I'll use.) If she needed a sitter for the baby, we were expected to do it, UNLESS we had an offer for another job or evening out. Then we were asked to do it and paid. I never felt resentful.
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