I hope that after rereading what I posted that you will see the part that says unless they want to. I also want to agree with you about big families and being great! I and the youngest of 13 in my generation, so I've done plenty of babysitting in my day for everyone in the family and I know that I felt obligated to miss out on a lot because I had to babysit, that's what I guess I was trying to express when discussing making the kids take care of each other...I don't depend on my children to do these things, but I might ask and they might offer...but it is still not their job.
I like how sexy mama put it:
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They love and care for each other naturally.
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