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Originally Posted by Prince
Am I the only guy here who hides his porn from his wife?
I've never asked her if she's okay with my small porn collection. I keep it hidden anyways... I recently bought a dvd or two from eBay, because I'm tired of the same ol' material I have... But now I find myself dreading that the wife will pick up the mail and find it.
I'm not really even sure why. I guess because it's hard to explain to a woman why I enjoy staring at other naked women too.
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I think one of the main problems is that this will trip you up with becoming fully intimate with your wife. When you keep secrets at this level, it's hard to feel as close as possible. One downside of that is that it will affect your sex life. The more open and vulnerable you can be with each other, the more intense your sex life can be.
If you want to start opening up that door, have you tried feeling her out on the quesiton in general. Like start a theoretical discussion? Like asking her, what does she think of married guys who indulge in porn? Or ask her if she ever enjoys looking at other men's bodies? It's a place to start.