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I'm not exactly married... but I feel the same way. I find it hard to understand how people can remain eternally faithful especially when I put myself in that sort of scenario. Worse yet, the only thing that consoles me is that the general consensus is that true love will give you those opinions. Some metaphysical bond with a person exists will stop me from ever desiring to commit infidelity. I've just not experienced it.
I don't agree with this. The obvious response to my disagreement is I've yet to experience it. Regardless, I consider "love" an emotion that comes and goes. I understand the commit of marriage is not just love, though. It sucks not being able to satisfy your sexual and emotional urges, immediate as they may be. I think this is common to anyone, just how much they can control themselves is what differs.
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I know nothing, but I'm pretty sure I dislike extremes. Hence, its more appropriate to say I know very little. I will doubt everything until I reach truth. Until then, nothing to me will be fact. If I challenge what you believe to be obvious, please understand I'm just helping the both of us learn.
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