I have three and would love to have more. Hubby doesn't agree. We don't have the income to increase our family size without losing some of our comforts that we have gotten used to. I also hate making kids take care of kids, they are my responsibility and therefore I feel it's my job to raise them. I ask my kids to help with the baby as little as possible unless they ask if they can try. I don't want little mommies running around but little girls enjoying playing and stuff while they still have the chance.
I am by NO means flaming anyones choices in the matter, for some families it works out better this way, and if I were to have another baby I am sure I'd have to break my own rules and beg for help as I have a hard time now.
I think that is wonderful that you are able to fill your home with love and still be able to share time with your wife. If and when we do have more room and childeren to fill it with then I hope to be able to still connect with my hubby too!
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