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Here's what you do. Share the fantasy with her, and enjoy it with her <i>as a fantasy</i>. Make sure she's clear it's not something you need to actually <i>happen</i>, just something you like to think about and imagine, and invite her to think about it and imagine it with you.
Free her up to share her fantasies with you--she'll probably surprise you! Most women have deeper fantasy lives than most men usually expect. You never know what she might come up with to keep you entertained.
The bottom line here is COMMUNICATION. Once you're both free to talk with each other and feel like you can say anything to each other, then your sex life AND the rest of your relationship can start to really blossom.
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