I agree abaya, with everything. Maybe it was just the time of our lives, or my density and inexperience (ha, probably the latter). Like I told one of her roommates and his girlfriend, Cheery and I argued about separate things without really realizing it at the time -- she was arguing about my (in)sensitivity and I was arguing about her trust. I considered her feelings, but not enough or in the right way. In the end, I think that I should have changed because, while not completely desireable to me, it is a whole lot easier to change actions and behavior than mentality (Cheery).
Oh well. I guess that's how the cookie crumbles...I don't know that any more long posts will be necessary or possible, since I've said just about everything I can. Yes, it certainly does suck. Now I guess it's just a matter of seeing where things go from here.
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