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Originally Posted by abaya
. . . but it sounds like you two were eventually incompatible, at least at this time in your lives.
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I thought the same thing as I was reading Sim's first post back in September, and Cheery's post in Ladies Lounge. It's a shame though that the two of you wasted sooooo many hours of argument and hurt before deciding to end this relationship.
To share a personal experience . . . one of my dearest friends is a guy I dated for about a year, we had broken up and remained friends prior to my dating my SO. My SO has never had a problem with my dear friend (SO and I have been married for nearly 11 years). In fact, I will be my dear friend's "best person" in his wedding later this year.
Best wishes to both of you though. And actually, it was good to read the perspectives both of you had of what was happening; I certainly understand both sides.