Sometimes you do nice things for people just because it feels good to do that. I don't think YOU'RE doing this, BoCo, but I can really hear a lot of other people feeling like reciprocation is what it's all about. It's NOT, people!! You do good things for others <i>just because</i>, or you're really just being enlightenedly selfish.
Thing two: jerks happen. Move on. He was touchy about the drive because he didn't want you finding the BDSM dungeon photos he and his wife have been swapping with other horny Born Again couples. That's my theory.
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