Thanks again, Impetuous. There's a lot of helpful things in there. I thought that cutting back talking with Sarah was a good compromise, but it was overshadowed by hanging out with her and the dance-thing. I, too, agree with what everyone has said on here about having the two of them meet; I wish I had, and wish I had been much more proactive about it a long time ago. Now that I think about it, there was an opportunity before school started (when Cheery was with me in DC) that would have been great. I really had no idea it would be such a big issue. Little did I know then; much more do I know now. Oh well...it does suck to learn it now, but I guess I have at least learned a lot.
Sim
PS: sorry this brought up so many bad memories ... hopefully you feel happier soon!
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