I think cheery sounds like any normal 19 year old with some insecurity. As far as the IM's she sent, the things she said about Sarah, that's what 19 year olds do. That's part of the package and if you want to re-enter a relationship with her, remember you're going to have to ride out that period and follow the 19 year old rules. The scales won't even out until the age ratio gets to be 21-24 or so.
As far as the whole thing with Sarah, it sounds like emotional cheating. You don't sleep with her or date her, but there's this.... thing.
I think you still could have a future with Cheery, if that's what you want. Or dog around if you want, but stick to it. Don't straddle the fence.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
Last edited by Poppinjay; 01-11-2006 at 01:02 PM..
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