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Originally Posted by simivin
My GF ends up telling me "no, absolutely not." I'm not happy, because I tell her I love her, that nothing is going on with Sarah, that she has nothing to worry about. And I meant it all. I ultimately say "fine, I won't." But then she isn't happy because I'm not happy about the decision. Bad conversation all around. We hang up and finish; she leaves a message, however, saying "you're right, you should hang out with whoever you want, she's just another girl, you've never done anything wrong, I'm not happy about it, but you should be able to go."
We talked that night and I thanked her for her message. She asked what my decision was and I said that I'd want to go. Thus began 3 more hours of fighting.
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Hahahaha, didn't you know that when she said you could go, you were supposed to fire back the "But I don't want to go honey."? 
Seriously though, jealousy\trust issues take time to work on. Sometimes they can be overcome with communication. Sometimes they can't. If they can't, the relationship is pretty fubar'd and should be terminated.
Hopefully you two learned some life lessons here - you should be more honest about the situations as they come up when you know your partner is concerned about them, and she should realize that when you make someone choose between a friend and them (especially because of jealousy), sometimes the choice isn't them.
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Last edited by Toaster126; 01-11-2006 at 08:03 AM..
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