I had this problem most of my sexual life. I read a few threads about the subject here on TFP a couple of months back.. The Kegal exercises didn’t really work for me. I found that concentrating on breathing and focusing on the feelings involved worked best. Breathe deeply, and when you feel like your anywhere close, slow way down and work on something else (kissing, massaging, etc). Then you can get back to trusting.
Another tip that works is to use your hips to thrust and make sure you relax your ass muscles. For what ever reason when you tighten up back there, it seems to speed up the process a bit.
It takes a little practice, but it beats the hell out of thinking about calculus…
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