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This is going to sound chauvinistic, but I swear I know what I'm talking about:
It sounds to me like it's too early to tell whether you have a chance with this girl. It's only been a few weeks, as you said.
Keep taking her out on dates, but DO NOT, under any circumstances, ask her to be your girlfriend. That is not the guy's job, believe it or not. If she likes you enough, after a month or two, she will ask you a question that will let you know that you've clinched things with her: "So, where are we going with this?"
Keep taking her out and showing her a good time. Don't let her get to know you too well too soon. And whatever you do, do not pour your heart out to her. The less she knows about you, the more she'll have to think about you, and the greater her interest will be in you.
When she does ask you where you think you guys should be going with it, play it cool. Your very first response should be "What do you mean?" Don't tell her what it is that <i>you</i> want; get her to tell you what <i>she</i> wants. Play it cool, and she'll be hooked on you before you know it.
Good luck my man.
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