Johnny, does she orgasm from oral or other types of sex play before you fuck? I would just make sure she is satisfied before you put it in her. Someone mentioned it before, but lots of women never cum from penetration anyway-- especially 19 year old women.
I was a premature ejaculator as a young man. The very second I got in there I would cum. It was embarrassing. It was really worrisome for me. The good thing was I could keep it up even if I had cum. I don't necesarily have any more control now, its just that I've grown used to the feeling. It takes me longer to get there now. But oh my gosh how incredible it felt when I was younger. Wow. Don't get me wrong, there's still nothing that compares, but I can take it now without immediately cumming.
Talk to her about it. Ask for her help. Tell her to stop moving when you feel the pressure build. Lay still in each others arms until it subsides, then go at it again. Repeat.
It is easy to tell you not to think about it ( I never could forget it). But lots of it is mental.
Good luck!
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