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Originally Posted by Seaver
I've always tried to get my SO's to dance for me. They're always too self-concious for it though. I've never got that... because they have all loved to have sex infront of the mirror.
So I've done the dancing. Put on some good grinding music and strip down to the boxer-briefs. It usually goes for a couple songs until she cant take it and puts me in her mouth (a good way to start IMO).
I just wish they would get over their insecurities and return the favor.
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When you're having sex, it's a joined effort (usually haha), but when you're stripping, you're obviously put not only under a spotlight, but a PERFORMANCE spotlight.
Here's something that I know has worked, play some sensual music, slow of course, don't want to jumpstart her, sit on a chair, have her be in front of you..place your hands round her hips and begin swaying them for her, usually she'll begin to do it on her own, and eventually become confident enough to go full on once she sees it isn't that bad after all.