Urgh, first contact, now that is something that went horribly for me all those years ago.
I have to agree with Tecoya, confident touching is the key. Gentle, but natural.
Perhaps rather than asking "do you mind if I kiss you?" when she is in your arms you could try and sound a little more confident. While looking her in the eye and after a few seconds silence try saying in a gentle whisper "I am going to have to kiss you, you know that don’t you?" Then if she's still in your arms, slowly move in for the kiss.
Good luck, like everyone here I am going to be checking back to see how it went. We’re all rooting for you.
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